I have been thinking a lot lately about my mother and fear. She was a strong woman before she got sick, but she was afraid of so much. She never learned to skate, or swim. She only flew once, and hated it. And after she got sick, she had new fears, night terrors. She became terrified of fire, of getting worse, of being left alone.
She gave me a different fear. The fear of waking up at forty and seeing your entire life’s work slipping away. No savings, too much debt and not enough insurance. So, I’ve spent the past four months making some changes. I’ve paid off three grand in personal debt, I bought life insurance, rental insurance, and I tucked away some money in a Flex medical account to supplement my health insurance. I am still, however, afraid of failing. It is a long way up out of barely scraping by, but the fall back down hurts more.